Picture this (c’mon. You know you can hear Sophia Petrillo in your head): You’re waltzing through life, following a meticulously planned itinerary, each step perfectly choreographed like a Viennese waltz. Suddenly, a rogue squirrel (life loves throwing squirrels, especially for those of us with A.D.D.) throws an acorn at your perfectly coiffed plans, reducing them to a confetti shower of disappointment. Now what? Do you throw a tantrum worthy of a toddler denied ice cream, or do you bend with the wind like a graceful willow tree, adjusting your steps without missing a beat?
That is the essence of adaptability is the ability to adjust, pivot, and thrive in the face of change. Adaptability is more than just a mouthful of syllables; it’s a mindset, a lifestyle, and often a superpower all rolled into one. Adaptability is not about becoming a spineless jellyfish, but rather a resilient oak, bending and flexing to weather storms while maintaining its core strength. And in today’s world, where the only constant is change itself, adaptability is more than just important, it’s practically a superpower. Professionally and personally. Personally, it’s a skill I developed out of necessity, which is often the case, and one I’m still hoaning. Adaptability is not a one-and-done.
Before you start picturing yourself in a cape, dodging metaphorical kryptonite, unexpected workplace and life challenges, think of adaptability as:
The ultimate life hack: Instead of spending years trying to control the uncontrollable, you learn to surf the waves of change, seeking and finding opportunities in unexpected places. Less frustration and more strategic pivoting.
Your personal cheat code: Adaptability allows you to learn faster, master new skills on the fly, and become the “Swiss Army knife” of your workplace and life, better equipped to handle any task or challenge.
A secret sauce to success: I’ve lived it and experienced it with clients, rigid plans rarely survive first contact with reality. Adaptability allows you to remain flexible and adjust your goals, embrace new opportunities, and avoid becoming that person clinging to a sinking ship, shouting, “But this is how it was supposed to be!”
Adaptability isn’t just some boring life skill or theoretical nonsense, it’s an adventure in flexibility, a dance with the unknown, and a chance to prove, most importantly to yourself, that you’re more than just another cog in the ever-changing machine of life.
Tips for mastering adaptability:
Tip 1 – Befriend the Unknown: Stop freaking out about the future. It’s like that surprise birthday party you dreaded as a kid – it might be scary, but it could also be filled with cake and embarrassing childhood photos (bonus points for adaptability if you can laugh at both). Embrace uncertainty, and see it as an exciting challenge, not a looming threat.
Tip 2 – Learn to Love “Maybe”: Ditch the rigid “yes” or “no” mentality and embrace the glorious ambiguity of “maybe.” It’s not a cop-out, it’s a superpower. It allows you to stay open to new possibilities, pivot when needed, and avoid getting stuck in the quicksand of indecisiveness.
Tip 3 – Failure is Your New BFF: Stop treating failure like a contagious disease. It’s not. It’s information, valuable intel on what isn’t working or doesn’t work. So, dust yourself off, reflect on the data, analyze the misstep, and adjust your approach. As the adage says, even the sturdiest oak tree started as a tiny, bendy sapling.
Tip 4 – Cultivate a Growth Mindset: This is a big focus of my coaching work with clients. I often share a favorite quote of mine by Michelangelo, “I’m still learning.” Ditch the fixed mindset that tells you you’re either good at something or not. That’s just limiting. Life is not so black and white. Instead, cultivate a growth mindset, a mindset that believes you can continuously learn and improve with effort. This opens you up to new ways to solve challenges, helps you bounce back from setbacks, and makes you more successful.
Tip 5 – Laugh at Yourself: I’m a firm believer that we need humor in our lives. Especially when facing challenges. Let’s be honest, adapting to change can be messy. You’ll stumble, you’ll fall, and you might even faceplant from time to time. But the key is to laugh it off if possible, learn from it, and get back up, ready to apply what you’ve learned and bend with the next unexpected gust of life’s wind.
So there you have it, adaptability in a nutshell. And remember, in a world that’s more unpredictable than a box of chocolates (gotta love Forrest Gump), adaptability isn’t just a skill—it’s your ticket to conquering the unknown with learning, grace, and agility. Embrace adaptability, hone it, and wield it for your sanity and success.
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About Scott Span, MSOD, CSM, ACC: is CEO at Tolero Solutions. As a people strategist, leadership coach, and change and transformation specialist, his work is focused on people. Through his consulting and training work, he supports clients to survive and thrive through change and transition and create people-focused cultures and a great employee experience. Through his coaching work, he supports people willing to dig deeper to identify and overcome what’s holding them back, change behaviors, accelerate performance, and achieve their goals.
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